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The signs of true self-expression include feelings of self-confidence, security and liberation. To the extent that you express your real self in the now, you feel in love with your life.
Here is a simple secret for a happier relationship: be more authentic.
You might believe that you are already totally authentic, a pure expression of your true self.
But to the extent that you conflict with your mate, or engage in a contentious power-struggle with your child, your boss, your co-worker, or with a client, you are actually in conflict WITH YOURSELF.
Whenever you experience any dissatisfaction in any relationship, the real cause is your unconscious departure from being your true self.
The most basic relationship wisdom-solution to any relationship problem is to improve your connection with who you truly are. To more completely discover and express your true self is to feel more content and fulfilled.
Stop trying to figure out what is “wrong” with anyone else, or what is “wrong” with your relationship.
Concentrate on being more true to yourself to feel centered in peace, harmony, and joy.
The signs of true self-expression include feelings of self-confidence, security and liberation. To the extent that you express your real self in the now, you feel in love with your life.
The next time that you feel annoyed with your mate, or disturbed by anyone else for that matter, focus on getting more clearly and deeply in touch with your own true self.
Stop complaining about what another person did that you dislike and instead think about who you truly are.
It might help to silently ask the question: “Who am I?” over and over, with your mind open to what comes up.
Don’t answer the question intellectually by thinking about personal information, like your sex, your name, your job, your family role.
Just direct your focus of attention within in a relaxed, unstrained effort to gradually, more and more deeply uncover the mystery of the true you.
Persevere in this quest of watchful inner openness until you gradually feel a growing, expanding, strengthening sense of clear inner knowing.
This practice attunes you to the wise inner guidance that constantly flows from the core of who you really are, dissolving all sense of conflict as you feel yourself being more and more truly yourself.
Only false and superficial notions of the self lead us into conflict. More authenticity is the secret for a happier relationship.
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