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Fall In Love… With Wisdom

By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, April 18th, 2012

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Fall In Love… With Wisdom

To attract wonderful people and to enjoy great relationships maintain your emotional balance in response to other people.

While most people look forward to falling in love, it is at that crucial beginning point of a new relationship when many of us need relationship help the most.

When you ā€œfallā€ for someone and slip into emotional desperation due to your high hopes for that new relationship, your emotional chaos risks a break up.

This is because emotionally reactions ā€œde-magnetizeā€ our power of attraction.

Whether it is a romantic relationship, a new business relationship, or even a very promising friendship maintaining your emotional balance protects your positive attraction power.

No matter how high your hopes may be, no personal relationship can really improve your life.Ā  Your destiny is determined by YOU.

To attract people who are really right for you, you have to be really right for yourself.

The more you genuinely respect yourself, the more genuine respect others will show you.

The more truly kind and caring you are the more kindness and care you bring out from others.

Getting very excited because you think that someone will make your most precious dreams come true actually lowers, or may even entirely eliminate, the odds of those dreams coming true.

This same principle of attraction applies when you react with strong negative emotion toward someone.Ā  When you very feel angry, frustrated or resentful, you lower your power to attract positive, loving individuals.

Just as no person can really ā€œsaveā€ or rescue you from your problems, no one can really undermine your good fortune or sabotage your success – no one other than you.

In fact, while you worry about how another person may be working against you, you are working against yourself by worrying about that!

To attract wonderful people and to enjoy great relationships maintain your emotional balance in response to other people.

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The Inner Key For Solving Relationship Problems

By Bob Lancer
Tuesday, March 13th, 2012

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Save Your Marriage

To enjoy more lasting love in a relationship with another, develop a more stable, completely loving relationship with yourself.

Any really worthwhile relationship advice focuses first and foremost on the quality of one’s relationship with oneself.

The first step to improve your relationship with another is to fix your relationship with yourself.

Relationship help tips:

  1. Whenever you wish that another would treat you better, focus on treating yourself better.
  2. Whenever you worry about what another might think of you, redirect your attention to the more important factor of what you think of yourself.

This relationship wisdom applies to a romantic relationship, a friendship, and even to a business relationship.

The fact is that while you feel critical of another for treating you poorly you are actually treating yourself poorly.

And when you think that another is thinking poorly of you, you are actually thinking poorly of yourself.

In both these instances, the relationship that has drifted off track is the relationship between YOU AND YOU.

One secret to ā€œkeeping love aliveā€ in a relationship with another is cultivating a loving relationship with yourself.

The next time that you want to resolve a conflict with another focus on recognizing and resolving your conflict with yourself.

The only real block that one experiences regarding physical intimacy is a block to emotional intimacy with oneself.

As you open up to your deeper inner feelings, and let yourself feel however you happen to feel, including your subtlest mood, attitude, and desire you can feel more deeply bonded on every level with another.

To enjoy more lasting love in a relationship with another, develop a more stable, completely loving relationship with yourself.

Thinking well of yourself is the underlying basis for treating yourself well and forming and maintaining good relationships with others.

In this blog, please share your thoughts regarding this relationship advice? Does it make sense? Can you provide some examples in your own life that prove or disprove its validity?Ā  Let’s begin a dialogue about the value and application of this relationship wisdom.

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