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To enjoy more lasting love in a relationship with another, develop a more stable, completely loving relationship with yourself.
Any really worthwhile relationship advice focuses first and foremost on the quality of one’s relationship with oneself.
The first step to improve your relationship with another is to fix your relationship with yourself.
Relationship help tips:
- Whenever you wish that another would treat you better, focus on treating yourself better.
- Whenever you worry about what another might think of you, redirect your attention to the more important factor of what you think of yourself.
This relationship wisdom applies to a romantic relationship, a friendship, and even to a business relationship.
The fact is that while you feel critical of another for treating you poorly you are actually treating yourself poorly.
And when you think that another is thinking poorly of you, you are actually thinking poorly of yourself.
In both these instances, the relationship that has drifted off track is the relationship between YOU AND YOU.
One secret to “keeping love alive” in a relationship with another is cultivating a loving relationship with yourself.
The next time that you want to resolve a conflict with another focus on recognizing and resolving your conflict with yourself.
The only real block that one experiences regarding physical intimacy is a block to emotional intimacy with oneself.
As you open up to your deeper inner feelings, and let yourself feel however you happen to feel, including your subtlest mood, attitude, and desire you can feel more deeply bonded on every level with another.
To enjoy more lasting love in a relationship with another, develop a more stable, completely loving relationship with yourself.
Thinking well of yourself is the underlying basis for treating yourself well and forming and maintaining good relationships with others.
In this blog, please share your thoughts regarding this relationship advice? Does it make sense? Can you provide some examples in your own life that prove or disprove its validity? Let’s begin a dialogue about the value and application of this relationship wisdom.
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Wisie Members: Please feel welcome to share your views in this blog regarding any of the Wisie videos, and to ask questions about how to make the most of them.
