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Relationship Tips To Fix A Relationship

By Bob Lancer
Monday, April 30th, 2012

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Relate in a calm, confident, natural, harmonious way and your relationships will work out wonderfully.

Every relationship is a wisdom school.

Whether you are involved in a moment of intimacy in your marriage, or a 3 minute business meeting with a client, there is always a higher purpose that brings two people together in the now.

Even dealing with a break up gives you an opportunity to learn and to grow.

If you focus on what you can learn while experiencing, say, a problem in communication in your marriage, you will find yourself well served by your effort.

In business relationships, as in personal relationships, you have an opportunity for self-improvement, and as you improve yourself, you improve your life.

As you work on forging a genuine bond of love with everyone, including difficult people, you strengthen your ability to build trust in a relationship and you create alliances that will support you on unseen levels.

Relationship compatibility takes care of itself when you remain compatible with your true self.

Often those who desperately want to know how to save a marriage would find their marriage improving if they stopped working so hard to save it!

Relate in a calm, confident, natural, harmonious way and your relationships will work out wonderfully.

Whatever form of relationship you are in, be it a friendship, a business or a romantic relationship, don’t PREtend, INtend.

Know what you intend to accomplish.

Before each encounter, think about what you want to achieve.  Think about the outcome you really and truly want for the two of you.

To improve communication in relationships, for instance, before you connect with a person with whom you have a communication problem, spend some time thinking of the way you want the communication between you to flow.

Envision yourself speaking and listening calmly and confidently.  Imagine a wonderful bond of loving harmony and understanding blossoming between you.  Imagine the two of you better off because of the time you spent together.

Here is how to fix a relationship: fix your inner vision on the way
that you really want the relationship to flow.

Waste no effort trying to coerce or force another to cooperate with you in any way.

Remember that every relationship is a wisdom school teaching you how to achieve all that you want in life.

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Fall In Love… With Wisdom

By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, April 18th, 2012

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Fall In Love… With Wisdom

To attract wonderful people and to enjoy great relationships maintain your emotional balance in response to other people.

While most people look forward to falling in love, it is at that crucial beginning point of a new relationship when many of us need relationship help the most.

When you “fall” for someone and slip into emotional desperation due to your high hopes for that new relationship, your emotional chaos risks a break up.

This is because emotionally reactions “de-magnetize” our power of attraction.

Whether it is a romantic relationship, a new business relationship, or even a very promising friendship maintaining your emotional balance protects your positive attraction power.

No matter how high your hopes may be, no personal relationship can really improve your life.  Your destiny is determined by YOU.

To attract people who are really right for you, you have to be really right for yourself.

The more you genuinely respect yourself, the more genuine respect others will show you.

The more truly kind and caring you are the more kindness and care you bring out from others.

Getting very excited because you think that someone will make your most precious dreams come true actually lowers, or may even entirely eliminate, the odds of those dreams coming true.

This same principle of attraction applies when you react with strong negative emotion toward someone.  When you very feel angry, frustrated or resentful, you lower your power to attract positive, loving individuals.

Just as no person can really “save” or rescue you from your problems, no one can really undermine your good fortune or sabotage your success – no one other than you.

In fact, while you worry about how another person may be working against you, you are working against yourself by worrying about that!

To attract wonderful people and to enjoy great relationships maintain your emotional balance in response to other people.

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