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Relate in a calm, confident, natural, harmonious way and your relationships will work out wonderfully.
Every relationship is a wisdom school.
Whether you are involved in a moment of intimacy in your marriage, or a 3 minute business meeting with a client, there is always a higher purpose that brings two people together in the now.
Even dealing with a break up gives you an opportunity to learn and to grow.
If you focus on what you can learn while experiencing, say, a problem in communication in your marriage, you will find yourself well served by your effort.
In business relationships, as in personal relationships, you have an opportunity for self-improvement, and as you improve yourself, you improve your life.
As you work on forging a genuine bond of love with everyone, including difficult people, you strengthen your ability to build trust in a relationship and you create alliances that will support you on unseen levels.
Relationship compatibility takes care of itself when you remain compatible with your true self.
Often those who desperately want to know how to save a marriage would find their marriage improving if they stopped working so hard to save it!
Relate in a calm, confident, natural, harmonious way and your relationships will work out wonderfully.
Whatever form of relationship you are in, be it a friendship, a business or a romantic relationship, don’t PREtend, INtend.
Know what you intend to accomplish.
Before each encounter, think about what you want to achieve. Think about the outcome you really and truly want for the two of you.
To improve communication in relationships, for instance, before you connect with a person with whom you have a communication problem, spend some time thinking of the way you want the communication between you to flow.
Envision yourself speaking and listening calmly and confidently. Imagine a wonderful bond of loving harmony and understanding blossoming between you. Imagine the two of you better off because of the time you spent together.
Here is how to fix a relationship: fix your inner vision on the way
that you really want the relationship to flow.
Waste no effort trying to coerce or force another to cooperate with you in any way.
Remember that every relationship is a wisdom school teaching you how to achieve all that you want in life.
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Wisie Members: Please feel welcome to share your views in this blog regarding any of the Wisie videos, and to ask questions about how to make the most of them.
























