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Trust Wisdom In Relationships

By Bob Lancer
Thursday, January 19th, 2012

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Wisdom in relationships

Simply practice trusting in your love-life fulfillment, and your POWER TO TRUST WILL GROW.

Applying wisdom in your relationships produces great relationships.

Bringing more wisdom into how you relate is how to have a better relationship.

You don’t have to change your mate for a happy marriage.  You simply have to grow wiser.

You CAN have the fulfilling love-relationship that your heart desires!

One essential aspect of the wisdom in relationships that makes that happen is training yourself to unconditionally trust in this.

When we DOUBT that we can have the satisfying love-relationship that

we crave, we are doing the OPPOSITE of how to have a better relationship.

TRUST that your satisfying, happy marriage is INEVITABLE and that NOTHING is preventing it from happening.  If you actually practice this, you will discover that this is an amazing key for how to have a better relationship.

Here is a wisdom-in-relationships exercise for harnessing the power of trust:

     

  1. Recognize when you experience even the SLIGHTEST DOUBT that your dream of relationship love will be fulfilled.
  2. Write out that doubt.  In other words, write a brief statement expressing the doubt, like, “I doubt that I will ever find happiness in marriage.”
  3. Then turn that statement into one that expresses trust, by writing something like: “I trust that my love relationship fulfillment is absolutely guaranteed.
  4. Then repeat that positive statement over and over, trying to feel the truth of it, imagining how you would feel if you knew with perfect certainty that your love-life fulfillment is really assured.

Contribute to the relationship wisdom of the world by sharing your experience of this exercise, and your thoughts and questions
about harnessing the power of trust in this blog.

So even if you find yourself alone on a Saturday night, even when you and your mate have another pointless fight,

Don’t mentally dwell on any condition that you do not want to come about.Instead, trust that your fulfillment in love is absolutely guaranteed.

Simply practice trusting in your love-life fulfillment, and your POWER TO TRUST WILL GROW.

At the same time, your fulfillment in love will grow, as you apply this wisdom. In relationships, we are as happy as we are wise.

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Receive Inner Wisdom For Love

By Bob Lancer
Thursday, January 19th, 2012

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"Wisdom of love"

The help I need is self-help for more peace, joy and love.

As we gain wisdom for love, we experience more love in our relationships.

When I’m experiencing a problem in my marriage, my first tendency is to think about what my mate has done “wrong”.

But I find this line of thought offering me NO relationship help.

I then remember that the quality of my experiences is a reflection of my level of wisdom.

The more wisely I handle what is happening, the more satisfying the results.

When I am feeling angry, I am in need of more wisdom for love.

I don’t need my mate to change.  I need to change. I need to develop more mastery. A higher level of skill and wisdom improves my experience of my relationship.

The help I need is self-help for more peace, joy and love.

When I remember this, I look at my level of frustration in my relationship as an indication of my need to learn how to better deal with what is happening.

This helps me to let go of my frustrated reaction and sort of open my heart and mind to a higher level of inner guidance.

As I open my heart and mind to receive the inner flow of more wisdom for love, I am no longer envisioning my mate as difficult, as wrong, or as my problem at all.

My problem, my challenge, is to receive the relationship help I need from within.

Here is an exercise that you can do right now for a better relationship:

Relax and consider how you can better handle your present relationship. You might do this by simply asking yourself the question: “What can I do to experience more love and satisfaction in my relationship?”

Follow the question by trusting that an answer, an insight will come.

Please feel welcome to share in this blog the relationship help or wisdom for love that you receive, from within.

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