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Recognize that the real cause of your disconnect is the way that you reacted.
The advice for a relationship that is the focus of this blog has to do with the negative power of angry communicating.
When we speak to another in an angry way, our heart closes. Our connection of love feels broken. We feel too insecure and defensive to fully open up to that person.
Under the influence of our anger, we THINK that we are closed, defensive and insecure because of something that other person said or did.
But the REAL cause of our heart’s disconnection is the influence of our angry speech upon our subconscious.
When you speak in an angry, accusatory, condemning tone of voice you give your subconscious the message that the person you are speaking to is dangerous, untrustworthy.
The advice for a relationship, especially for a loving marriage or parent-child relationship, that applies here is to:
1. Recognize that the real cause of your disconnect is the way that you reacted.
2. Begin re-opening to love by speaking in more soothing, caring voice tones.
Can you relate with the relationship insights and
marriage advice presented here?
Do you believe that your mate is responsible when your heart closes?
If so, why?
Share your thoughts, experiences and questions about the negative power of angry communication in this blog.
People commonly regard their manner of talking to someone as a result of how they have been spoken to or treated by that person. But this diminishes our power to experience and express all the love we want.
Begin more consciously and intentionally USING AND CHOOSING your manner of speech with the aim of enjoying more love in your life. You can count on this advice for a relationship that really works.
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