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Facing Loneliness

By Bob Lancer
Friday, July 29th, 2011

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Advice for Relationship
Feelings of love promote health and healing. Feelings of loneliness cause the body to shut down.

No force in life challenges us more than love.

Advice about love is one of the most popular categories in the self-help genre.

Because love is such a beautiful experience, we want it so badly when we feel its absence.

To be as happy as we want to be, we need love. Advice that pertains to love also pertains to fulfillment.

The human body is designed for love. Feelings of love promote health and healing. Feelings of loneliness cause the body to shut down.

It is common to expect that the cure for

loneliness is relationships.

But advice that tells you to seek relationships to escape loneliness is superficial at best.

Do you expect a relationship to rescue you from loneliness?

What was the loneliest period of your life?

Share your thoughts and questions about loneliness and love in this blog.

No other person or group can totally satisfy our need for love, at least not all of the time.

Feelings of loneliness are a sign that you need to connect

more deeply with YOURSELF.

Love advice should not just be about romantic relationships. It should be about how to grow into a more loving person.

You do not really receive love FROM another unless it is love

FOR another or for yourself.

When another shows you love, if you feel deeply touched by it, it is because it causes you to fall in love with yourself.

To fill yourself with love is to free yourself from loneliness. No other person can be counted on to do this for you on a constant basis.

To fill yourself with love, think about what you can do for yourself, or for another, that will dissolve every trace of your inner darkness or emptiness.

Loneliness is a sign that you need more love. Advice that directs you toward being more loving toward yourself and others leads to your release.

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Overlooked Relationship Advice

By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, July 20th, 2011

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Advice on Relationships

Getting enough rest is part of taking good care of yourself physically, emotionally and mentally.

In our go-go-go society, too many of us are getting too little rest, and too few “relationship experts” focus on the need for rest as a crucial piece of relationship advice.

What prevents YOU from getting the rest you need?

How does tiredness impact your ability to relate well with others?

Share your thoughts about tiredness and relationship-conflict in this blog.

Getting enough rest is part of taking good care of yourself physically, emotionally and mentally.

If you allow yourself to become physically drained and emotionally strained by pushing yourself too hard in daily living, you leave yourself with nothing left to give to your relationship.

Advice about nutrition and exercise is readily available.

But rarely is the connection made between these important aspects of a healthy life-style and love.

A relationship, to be harmonious, takes two people taking good care of themselves.

One crucial component of self-care that is beginning
to get more attention has to do with rest.

When you give yourself too little rest, you become grumpy, irritable and just plain difficult to get along with.

Getting enough rest and being loving go together.

When you do not allow yourself sufficient rest, you lose your ability to love. Relationships, to be loving, require two well-rested individuals.

Under the influence of tiredness we forget useful relationship advice.

Being tired dulls one’s ability to think, remember, communicate and problem solve.

How does tiredness impact your ability to communicate?

Do you become critical? Do you complain and argue?

Please share your experiences in this blog.

Although it may seem that your daily demands make it impossible for you to get all the rest you need, all it really takes is a commitment to self-care. If you agree or disagree, share YOUR point of view in this blog.

Taking good care of yourself in general, and getting all the rest you need in particular, represents an absolutely essential piece of relationship advice.

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A Love Life Law

By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, July 6th, 2011

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Relationship Advice for Love

One of the love life laws that it pays to know about, is the law of association.

Your love life does not unfold for you by accident. There are definite laws at work in every pattern of occurrence.

One of the love life laws that it pays to know about, is the law of association.

According to this powerful law, you are automatically influenced by those with whom you associate.

One of the ways you are influenced, that can have a serious impact on your love life, pertains to the love life destiny that you attract.

If you spend too much time with individuals who have a negative attitude toward the possibilities of a great relationship, you are bound to receive some of that attitude.

Not only will you feel the unhappiness and anxiety of their negativity. You will also begin attracting the difficulties that a negative attitude attracts.

Our attitude determines what we attract in life, including the love life experiences we receive.  Maintaining an open, trusting attitude that expresses your faith in the inevitability of your relationship fulfillment draws to more and more of the fulfillment your heart desires.

Those who feel disappointed about their future love life possibilities probably felt hopeful at one time, but as they passed through a series of disappointing scenarios, they gradually lost their optimism.

To attract conditions of a higher level in any area of life, including your love life, develop UNCONDITIONAL trust in the inevitability of your success.  When you encounter disappointment, give yourself some time to heal, to pass through your sense of sadness and loss, and then as soon as you can return to your quest for success.

Build a vision of the love life you want. Remain committed to a life-long path of self-development, use every relationship experience as a lesson that helps you to awaken to higher levels of relationship wisdom.  And avoid spending too much time around negative people.  This is how to create the love life you long for.

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