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Whatever problems you currently face in your marriage, your relationship help and your ongoing commitment to your own personal growth are inseparable.
Fulfilling your higher potential is absolutely necessary for your relationship to fulfill its higher potential, in love.
Your relationship dissatisfaction points to a way that YOU need to grow for more relationship satisfaction.
Here is an example of specific love-relationship advice based on the principle of personal growth for a better relationship:
For instance, you can develop your ability to remain calm when your mate does not seem to get your point, instead of automatically reacting with anxiety and aggressiveness.
As you improve what you do in your marriage, you improve your experience of your marriage.
Relationships are like seed-beds for our higher potential to take root in.
Notice how you react when your mate makes a mistake (in your eyes).
Do you remain perfectly calm, confident and compassionate, or do you react with feelings of insecurity, anger, disappointment, even rage?
By developing better self-control you can at least improve YOUR experience of the relationship.
What does your mate do that triggers of your reaction of verbally lashing out in a bitter tirade?
Instead of counting on your mate to grow, find relationship help by working on your own personal development. Think about how you would prefer to respond.
Any marital problem that you are facing is simply showing you how you might change to find more joy, success and satisfaction in life.
For instance, if you fear that your mate has been dishonest with you, instead of just resenting your mate for being “untrustworthy, examine your reaction.
Do you WANT to feel incensed? Do you WANT to put up your walls and become distant, disconnected or even dishonest yourself? Do you fiercely castigate your mate?
You certainly DON’T want to react with painful, negative emotion, so work on improving your response to not getting your way.
The love-relationship advice of personal growth suggests that you take responsibility for improving your reactions.
You can count on this law to improve your relationship. Help yourself to more relationship satisfaction through self-improvement.
When we react with anger or insecurity to another’ behavior, our reaction is virtually always based on an insufficient exploration of the facts of the situation.
Take note of those instances when you feel angry or threatened by what your mate’s behavior, and then resolve to maintain your peace and poise long enough to find out what is going on BEFORE reacting.
Whatever improvements you would like to see in your marriage,think about how YOU can grow, on the ways that YOU can change for more of what you want.
If you don’t receive the relationship-help you are looking for right away, just continue working on your personal development.
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