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Many couples are in need of love and relationship advice that pertains to the heart and the art of forgiveness.
Many of us apparently presume that we have to continually remind ourselves of the hurtful ways that our mate has behaved.
While we do this to protect ourselves from getting hurt like that again, holding onto our painful memories keeps us locked in pain.
Marriage Help Wisdom for Love: When you entrust your heart to the now, by focusing on the present without a thought of the past or future, you gain access to all the love that you want right now.
Letting go of you memories of past hurts does NOT mean that you live in denial.
It means that you permit yourself to enter freedom from the hurt you do not want to repeat.
To focus full attention on the NOW involves releasing yourself from the known as you open up to the mysterious realm of all possibility that is the present.
Practice doing your best to relate with your mate in the NOW, which means that you are NOT relating with any pre-conceived notion you have about this person.
With practice you will grow increasingly free of attachment to painful memories that block your ability to love.
You will see your PRESENT opportunity to experience the loving closeness your heart desires.
Abandoning your memories of how your mate has hurt you does NOT necessarily mean that you are making the mistake of repressing the hurt you feel.
It is natural to fear some fearful resistance to fully focusing on the now, because you don’t really know what you will discover.
But worrying about what you will find out means that you are looking at frightening scenarios of an imaginary future.
By simply focusing on the now DESPITE your trepidation, and doing so gently, you gradually lose the fear that prevents you from doing so.
The marriage advice being presented here is to simply practicing experiencing your relationship in the present. This practice frees you from fear, liberates you from emotional pain of the past, and opens you to love.
Practice relating with awareness focused on the present to find your path to love in your relationship. This advice is really showing you how to forgive.
To forgive is really to give yourself freedom from fear, to love.
Living in the NOW permits your love to be renewed, and new love is what we feel when we first FALL in love.
And there is no end to how often and how deeply the two of you can fall in love.
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