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The Overly Busy Couple

While technology was “supposed” to have produced more leisure time, it actually poses some challenge to love.

Relationships today seem to be drifting into increased separation as we spend more time struggling to make the money we need to purchase the newest technology development!

Couples seem too busy to participate in their marriage.

Relationship experiences may only LOOK LIKE relationship experiences.

For instance, even as couples sit together on a physical level, they can be separated by miles, or by centuries, as each plunges into the private domain of his and her own laptop or i-pad.

The internet can also be a great help, as a source of endless amounts of advice for a relationship.

But even the best advice is wasted without the time we need to spend together in order to try it out!

And when we are not busying ourselves in our separate intellectual worlds on the internet, there seems to countless chores needing to get done.

To complete them more quickly, we might divvy them up between us. But this just splits us up from one another all the more.

And it’s a funny thing about that to-do list. The more you get done, the more you see that you have yet to get done!

Why did you enter marriage? Relationship goals are important to consider.

Take some time to quietly sit with your heart and mind open,
as you contemplate the question:

What do I want most from a relationship?

Remembering why you wanted to be married helps you direct your life into the marriage experience you really want.

It’s easy to forget about love. Relationships without love, though, are not really satisfying.

Since in today’s society both individuals usually work, spouses often find no one to come home to at the end of the day.

The reasons are countless: one has to work late, or one has gotten stuck in traffic, or one is out of town for work.

And when there are children involved, the amount of quality time we tend to spend together is curtailed to an even farther extreme.

For love-relationships to thrive, we need to direct enough attention, time and energy into it.

When we take a relationship for granted, it begins dying.

While we work so hard to “get ahead”, the value of success is greatly diminished when we have no one we love to share it with.

When couples become too busy, they become too dizzy.

They lose the clear-mindedness they need to live in line with their TRUE priorities.

Too much busy-ness creates mental fog, so we do more and more of less and less real value.

You and your mate may be so busy that you do not even realize that your intimacy is absent, causing you both to feel depressed.

You then might wonder why you feel so unhappy without ever considering the possibility that you are simply missing one another.

Stop being busy long enough to get in touch with your hunger for love. Relationships don’t automatically work out. We need to guide them.

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