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Building our power of trust in a relationship is critical for any thriving, long-term relationship, especially marriage.
When a marital problem arises, we typically begin to feel anxious and insecure, and this fear is what drives us into ugly conflict.
When your relationship does not seem to be going your way, take it as a sign that it is time for you to grow more secure.
Life is ALWAYS working out for you.
You will ALWAYS find yourself better off, whatever takes place in your marriage. Help yourself to realize this by releasing your distrust in life.
When we feel dissatisfied with our mate’s conduct, it’s common for us to feel anxious, and even inadequate.
If you are feeling unhappy in your marriage, remember this love-relationship advice: realize that you are suffering from a belief, an opinion, a way of interpreting what is happening.
Often when we feel in any way threatened by another, we feel insecure, out of control.
We also may feel a loss of self-respect that triggers an anxious need to prove ourselves as the superior person.
This competitive, insecure mindset, however, serves only to set us up for more frustration, low self-esteem and insecurity.
Build your trust in your relationship WITH LIFE instead of permitting your insecurity to drive you into conflict with your husband or wife. Under the influence of unresolved fear, the false need to prove yourself as the superior person may drive you to strive to cause your mate to feel out-done, dominated and defeated by you.
But this strategy provides no real marriage help.
If you succeed in this, at best your efforts do nothing more than produce suffering for your mate.
And the energy you expend in “besting” your mate leaves you with less energy available to achieve your positive goals and to manage life’s challenges.
Instead of engaging in vain competition with your mate, build trust in your relationship with life. Let go of the thoughts about your mate that cause you to feel insecure and try trusting that no other person really has any power to undermine your best interest.
Free yourself from fear by remembering that the ultimate law of life is ALWAYS change is for the better.
Instead of worrying about your mate’s being out of your control, trust that an infinitely Greater Power is Ultimately in control.
To resolve marital conflict, build trust in your relationship with the ULTIMATE POWER that is really always in charge.
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