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10 Steps For Relationship Growth
By  Bob Lancer

The relationship advice presented here explains the 10 basic steps for creating a great relationship

Step 1: Start off boldly. Take the initiative. Don’t wait until you are perfectly sure that this the perfect person or the perfect thing for you to do. Take the risk and see what happens, because if YOU don’t, the relationship may NEVER happen.

Step 2: After boldness, comes the need for some patience, to balance things out. The relationship advice to follow here is: Don’t be in a hurry to forge a deep and meaningful bond. Avoid pushiness, but be persevering. If the relationship hits a rough patch, don’t impulsively flee.

The next two steps are embedded in the following
relationship quotes:

Step 3: “Our relationship began to advance as we engaged in pleasant communication. It was definitely too early for deep talk about heavy emotional issues. We just enjoyed fun chats and pretty much avoided serious matters.”

Step 4: “We began feeling closer as we shared nurturing experiences. I mean that literally we ate together. It was like “playing house” and we began to feel more like family. We both began to recognize and presence our increased vulnerability.”

Step 5: The advice for a relationship at this stage is to let yourself shine. Avoid TOO concerned with the other person’s feelings and sensitivities. Show off your talents and gifts. Let things revolve around you enough to feel true to who you really are.

Step 6:Fidelity becomes a serious matter. Be willing to make sacrifices for the other’s benefit. Avoid becoming hyper-critical, as you move closer together.

Step 7: The relationship advice for this stage is to work at getting along. You may no longer LIKE everything about your mate, but you are not going to LIKE everything about anyone. Be diplomatic. Trying to make final decisions about the relationship at this point lead to indecisiveness, with the pros and cons seeming about even.

Step 8: You will be wanting more of one another because you are heading into a level of deeper oneness. You both may feel like you are turning into different people, because your relationship is ending your old life, giving birth to a new one. Spiritual and sexual issues may become paramount at this point.

Two more relationship quotes apply to the next two steps:

Step 9: “We were getting so close that it felt like some ruts were forming. So we decided to take some trips – one together and one apart. ravel far and wide, even if you travel apart. We also started spending more time with others socially. It was refreshing and expanded our horizons.”

Step 10: “We both knew that it was time to take the future seriously. We worked on forming mutual goals for how we wanted the relationship to serve our lives. We considered our attitudes toward children, career, money, and other goals, and the relationship began feeling very solid and comfortable.”

As you look at these steps it can help you to recognize what stage you are on in your relationship, and what might be called for to take the relationship to the next step.

Follow the relationship advice here as a sort of map, helping you to orient to the natural pattern of relationship growth.

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